Content warning: This page includes descriptions of abuse and may be distressing to read. Information on how to access support for any issues it may raise for you is available at wellbeing support for school staff.
This page includes student-to-student abuse that is defined as family violence (intimate partner relationships and siblings). When student-to-student abuse is not family violence, see identify student-to-student abuse.
Identify child abuse in the family
As a school staff member, you may be the only adult in a position to identify child abuse in the family.
The definition of a family is broad. It includes relationships with a former or current intimate partner, genetic or kinship family member, or a family-like relationship, for example, an unpaid carer.
Child abuse in the family can take many forms:
- physical abuse
- sexual abuse
- grooming
- child sexual exploitation
- emotional or psychological abuse
- neglect
- family violence.
There are other ways that a child can experience abuse, including crimes related to:
- forced marriage
- change or suppression (conversion) practices
- exposure to violent extremism.
Multiple types of abuse can occur at the same time.
See types of child abuse and what to look for.
How to identify abuse
You can identify abuse in the family in many ways. You can:
- witness an incident
- receive a disclosure (including information from a third party)
- observe physical or behavioural signs
- observe signs of family violence trauma in children and young people
- observe family violence risk factors
- observe narratives and behaviours that may indicate an adult is using family violence
- see something worrying or problematic online and/or on a student’s device
Often, observing signs, risk factors, and narratives and behaviours may be the only indication that a child is being abused. It is critical that you can recognise them. There are signs to look out for in both students who are victims of abuse and the people who are committing abuse.
Collect more information
You only need to collect enough information to form a reasonable belief or inform your next steps. Collect information in a safe, reasonable and appropriate way. This will help you understand the situation and decide how to respond.
You can use this information to:
- identify abuse
- plan support
- refer to other agencies to help the student and their family get the support they need
- report to other agencies to help them investigate your concern.
Complete tools to identify family violence
These family violence tools cover all types of abuse within the family, including sexual abuse.
Other actions you can take
Next steps
If you have not identified abuse
You've completed the 4 Critical Actions for now.
Keep monitoring for changes. You can return at any time if you learn new information.
If you identify abuse from a different source, see:
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