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Refer: respond to student-to-student abuse

Guidance on how to refer students to community services. Refer is one of the 4 Critical Actions.

Schools

As soon as you believe a student has been, or is at risk of being abused by another student, you must act.

4 CRITICAL ACTIONS

⬣ Identify ▲ Report ⯀ Support ⬤ Refer

Note: This page is about responding to non-family violence incidents. When student-to-student abuse is defined as family violence (intimate partner relationships and siblings), go to respond to abuse in the family and follow the steps.

Refer students to community services

Your school can refer students to a range of specialist support services that are available in the community. Refer complements support. Both actions can happen at the same time if that is the best way to help the student.

Specialist support services assist with:

  • safety, wellbeing and mental and physical health concerns
  • problem behaviours
  • legal advice
  • financial help.

Specialist support services are available to assist:

  • victim survivors of abuse
  • people who use violence
  • people who self-harm
  • children and young people
  • parents and families
  • metropolitan, regional and rural communities
  • Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities
  • culturally and linguistically diverse communities
  • people with disabilities
  • LGBTIQA+ communities.

Students can also access further support and information directly. You can provide them with a list of helplines and websites.

Identify a suitable service

Before you engage with students and their parents or carers, highlight which services are likely to be the most suitable.

This will depend on:

  • the type of abuse the student experienced
  • the support that the students need
  • any history that the students have with community services.

Help students connect to a service

Talk to students and their parents or carers about the services that are available. This can help them choose the service that best meets their needs.

Ideally, a student will self-refer to a service, with the help and support of their parents or carers. However, your school can help to connect a student to a service. You could do this by making a phone call to the service with, or on behalf of the student.

Continue to help students as appropriate

If your school helps to refer a student to a specialist support service, that service may inform you of the outcome of the referral.

If you are not part of the referral, you may still learn of the outcome through an information sharing request. For example, this could happen if the student self-referred.

The service may tell you:

  • what services the student has been connected to
  • if they were unsuccessful in contacting the student – they may ask for your help
  • if the student or their parents or carers declined support.

If a student or their parents or carers do not want to engage with a service at this time, you can give them the list of services, helplines and websites.

By giving them this list, the student or their parents or carers can directly connect with further support and information when they are ready. This is another way to help them feel empowered and make it more likely that they seek help, even if it is not immediate.

Follow up with the student or their parent or carers to ensure they can access the services they need. If the student is unable to access a service, consider alternatives that may be available.

At all times, you should:

  • continue to provide support to the student
  • monitor the situation
  • continue to follow the 4 Critical Actions to respond to new information or risks.

This should be in collaboration with:

  • the student
  • their parents or carers
  • relevant authorities
  • specialist support services involved in supporting the student.

Next steps

Continue the 4 Critical Actions

While you refer the student, continue to support them. You may need to support and refer the student at the same time.

You may also need to report to authorities.

⬣ Identify ▲ Report ⯀ Support ⬤ Refer

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At all times